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People who are afraid to be/fall in love, why?
People who are afraid to be/fall in love, why?
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I'm scared of being vulnerable. I know I'm the clingy and possessive kinds. I don't want to cry and sob looking at my phone just because he hasn't texted back for an hour, and I know I will. Also, those videos where another girl flirts with the guy and the girlfriend just sits there watching because like ??? I'm scared lmao I don't trust people at all.
level 2
Oh yes, I can relate. Not to the point where I obsess about phone messages, but I'm definitely a very clingy person and that's probably exhausting for both a potential partner and me, on top of vulnerability being scary in itself.
level 2
People need to be more accepting and supportive of someone with anxiety.
level 2
And that's what happened to me... I mean the crying thing. He just kinda dropped me after that. I should've expected it
level 1
Because I am not the kind of person capable of managing themselves in a positive way to maintain a healthy relationship. It would only hurt the other person, and I refuse to do that ever again.
Better to be alone and mostly normal / stable than to have a partner and become unhinged. Doing well so far the last 15 years without one.
level 2
Same. If I don't manage to fuck it up, chances are the other person will. And if somehow, after doing fucked up things to scare them away they still want to be with me, I lose all respect for them and leave anyway to be alone by myself.
I'm just broken man.
level 2
Yeah... but I'm unhinged either way so... yeah
level 1
Personally I just don't wanna be hurt again🤷🏽♂️
level 2
I was married before and not long after separating found a lovely woman. Younger than me but a perfect fit. Fast forward 3 years and she's unhappy. I can't fix it and she's leaving. We were perfect until about 3 weeks ago and it hasnt been the same. I've decided that I found her too early in her life and that she just fears settling down. I cannot think of person better suited for me, and so i wont look. I'm simply done. This has hurt far more than my divorce ever did.
level 2
Same here, my friend. It always hurts and I don't want that feeling again soon. "Love = pain" in my world. Kinda sad.
level 2
Never gonna give you up never gonna let you down never gonna run around and desert you
level 2
This. I've been in love once, she burned me and truthfully I've never gotten over it since I never want to fall for anyone again. Love just isn't worth it.
level 1
I've witnessed how a future or a family are being destroyed by "falling in love". Personally it scares me.
level 1
Because I'm afraid of disturbing my peace. I'm usually in a good place before a relationship and the relationship does nothing but destroy it.
level 2
I am finding my way back to my peace after my last relationship.
There is no way to win. Because if you aren't in a good place of peace, it isn't good to begin a relationship?
level 1
Because I'm so used to being hurt and I know what happens every time and I don't want to be in that kind of pain again
level 1
I'm cynical to cover up my own raging inadequacy and failures, but I also believe anyone would just settle for me while they compromise with themselves until the relationship gradually fizzles out until it's awkward and we're waiting for the other to end it. That's the better case scenario, they could just cheat or talk behind my back I guess lol.
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